Stop Comparing Yourself To Others; The Secret To Self-Improvement Is Focusing On Yourself

“The reason why we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel” — Steve Furtick

Why You Shouldn’t Play The Comparison Game

Life isn’t fair, some people just get lucky

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You can’t change who you are

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Do This Instead

Focus on improving yourself

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“Comparison with myself brings improvement, comparison with others brings discontent” — Betty Jamie Chung

Remember your accomplishments

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Instead, I’d rather be hard on myself because I think that’s what makes me tough and that’s what will make me successful. I refuse to come to grips with the progress I’ve made because then I would be “soft”.

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“Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation” — Brain Tracy

Stop being jealous of others and appreciate what you have. Just because the grass looks greener on the other side doesn’t mean it is because what may seem like a field of healthy green-space may actually be a field of weeds.

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